social framework.

as I start to explore this front of my life, and allow myself to imagine a successful social life. I can clearly see how much better life can become. and how much denial and suppression is going on inside me. and seriously how much I have been robbed because of my poor social skills. the more I read the more it becomes apparent.

so how exactly I can approach it ! how can I balance my effort with theory and practice. there is a confusion in my mind of what exactly is the shape of attempt. and when I am confused I tend to fallback to the safe point. is reading books is collecting data or I am hiding behind it. where is the threshold. what is the framework. what is the framework, how does stages look like.

and what if you don’t know what is the framework ! create one. the autopilot is a problem. a progress trap. you need to know it and own it. or be clear that what strategy I am implementing.

forget more reading or whatever, first try to create a framework on whatever you need. and than decide what to do further.