Social Recalibration.

The one aspect is to master at this point is to social etiquette, diplomacy, negotiation, leadership, assertiveness and networking, in a sense living win-win in the realm of egotism and completion. Where fundamental element is another person wanting to have things there way, either not taking responsibility or willing to go to any extent to get things his way. Dignified appearance.

The second aspect is to build compassion and dissolve ego. With ego comes all kind of set of suffering, disrespect both ways, reputation, praise and all. And compassion is the state when you see someone suffering from the same pain, this is the point of dissolution of self centered suffering and

The third aspect is getting more clarity in terms of relationship, I can go deep with Lin, or horizontal with exploration. This is still a point of not so clear, than if you want to explore, you need to engage in some communities and have you own place. Ideally I should go horizontal, but the desire and what exactly to explore is pulling me vertically.

Then these desires are springing from the desire for sensuality, being loved, escape. They are rooted in my mind fused with ideas of happiness. Affecting the encounters and making me take steps.

The final aspect is having an emotionally balanced life. Having a gf, having some friends you can connect with. Good relationship with family.

Reading books on negotiation and diplomacy, journaling in the night how I did today. Getting more clarity on what girls want, how to live in lasting relationship. Engaging in atleast one community. Flourishing your social community.