Social Recalibration.

Transcendental mind and the drop of thought.

Acceptance| Rejection| Sexual Urges || Authenticity | compassion | learn from others - These are the deep samskaras and fundamental stones that are swirling the water. The sexual urges are slowly dissolving and need of acceptance and fear of rejection is also quite visible, it is the matter of time they will be melted. I can actually start doing the weekly course on Authenticity, compassion and leaning from others and maybe laughing at myself.

Difference in perspective - this is the most fundamental truth. there are differences in the vantage points, not only differences but actual samskaras are different which leads to acceptance and rejection and taking things personally, assuming, abusing, controlling, making fun etc.

Social balance - At this point, if I live alone, I am going to feel at unease, The smiling face of lin, a good conversation with J, time spent with students, in absense of all this I seems to go out of balance. ofcourse there are certain things which also impact negatively.

Social Design patterns - There are same a dozen of situations that are keep coming over and over again. just solve them once and for all. Bad behavior, intellectual masturbation, abuse, negotiations, all these communications challenges, that you have to face. Leadership, temwork etc.

Communities and networking - There are two aspects, work and personal relationships, and if you keep engaging in communities, you can continue flourishing them.

Romantic Relationship - Lin, marriage, short term, long term, organic. there certain advantage and disadvantage in being in a relationship, and it fills social needs much faster. foundation of it is actually the social need. Then comes the question of permanent commitment or freedom. This is quite burning question as lin needs to move out.

Family | Friends - these are again founded in the social need. the friends are continuously circulating.

Serve - serving others another pipe to the same social well.

Dignified appearance - Basic hygiene and clothes.