Social Recalibration - An Ideal Partner.
An understanding and appreciation of what other person is doing - this was an incredible quality in Lin and J. They seems to understand, respect and throughly appreciate my spiritual drive decipline and the way I live. On the other hand Kavita seems to get a little bit in the beginning, I can’t expect this from Ritika or namarata, infect they are opposite. This is also the common interest. I in return also appreciate the things they are doing in their life not Preksha. Sixen could have been, but it is too early, couple more meeting and you know exactly.
Self importance | Giver - Dwani, Denmarkish, even the isrialian girl who returned the breakfast in snow line. these people had very high amount of self importance, It is becomes clear early, on the other hand again Lin and J are the givers. They are willing to up to an extent to make other person happy. Ofcourse there is a hard line, I could be bit on the side of self importance especially when I am dealing with , but I certainly I am also a giver.
Maturity - Not too childish like prachi, Kavita, someone who can think for her self. Who can think beyond their emotions. And understand the complaxity and work it takes. And some degree of understanding of reality. Someone who listen and understand.
Life - People who are open, trying to cultivate the self, has life in them, going somewhere, trying something, not arrogantly but trying. On the other side Sohail has already given up, Raveendran closed by ego, Hrishi stuck. I like the fact that esabel, J, these people are trying readin books, making attempt.
Playfulness - This was the thing in Lin, she was playful and childish sometime. She get so happy if I do something for her. Make that face of a child, become so happy that she forgets, share like a child. Sometime even weak like a child. This prachi also show sometimes. Ritika. Laugh, challange, play.
Similar Interest - yoga | psychology | books | meditation | self understanding | business | food | living a filling life | comfort and finance | meaningfulness | Pursuits
Attraction - There is sexual attraction rooted in my desire. There are people who dressed very arosuingly, emotionally polarising. The high heels, cleavage, make up, cigrates, coolness… most of the time they are driven by the desire of acceptance, and bombarded by attention. You can not possibley expect spiritual understanding | giver type. This is what I am not looking for. Even though maybe because of still need of mastery I might get polarised, but this is a negative quality. A good hygiene and decent sense of appearance is more than enough, coloured hair, strong makeup and heels could be too much.
Age | Nationality - There is kind a turn off about going long term if the age mismatch as with the Lin | Preksha. There is a also a challange that nationality difference produces. Once things start to get serious these things seems to have a serious weightage | I wouldn’t mind infect I might even want to explore if the marriage is not the concern.