Social Recalibration - An Ideal Romantic Relationship.
You keep the element of mutual happiness and discard the ones that are creating problems. You remove or dry all the illusory happiness and built on the foundation of reality.
You have to live together.
The first thing it shouldn’t spread or be intrusive. It should have it’s place. But then it shouldn’t interfere with your spiritual | work | health goals.
It would be incribdle if it is complementory, if she prefer to clean the house or cook and I will be happy to pay the rent of the place and the meals, there has to be mutual respect.
In the beginning you might do it twice but than you do it once a week.
You should be so comfortable around each other so that it doesn’t affect you personally.
You wake up do your thing, [ meditation ] and work at your office till night and then you come back home and spend time with her or reading. And then you sleep at 10:00
This 7-10 is her time. You play with her, eat with her. Pay attention to her. Go out if you feel so.. as a general guideline. No messaging and all that in between.
There is has to be common pursuits, and a common type. Resonance. You already know it what I mean.
You don’t want to tolerate the second class treatment. If someone is interested lead them to this, if some one is wishy washy, let them go.
If you are not in the relationship, use your evening wisely in reading.
For this year, you want to live together with people but no very permanent kind of commitment.