Social Recalibration - Courtship process.
So you meet someone, you meet them at a place where you stay [ ananda ], place where you go often cafe [snowline | radhakrishana], events [yoga retreat | tushita], courses[intro to Buddhism | speechcraft| php].
You talked and there is a resonance, you take a phone number and escilate. And decide to meet somewhere. Or casually ask them to breakfast.
There is slightly awakward first date. You get to know each other a little. Let it be awakward. There is a charm in that. You give her space to talk, talk clearly about the kind of person you are. Naturally let it build. And gaze her interest and all.
You see her interest keep escialtung until you are living together. As simple as that. If she wants she will show the sign. If there is no right fit. Her interest or actions are dubious. Let it go. Do not waste your time.
Niether I drink, nor I smoke, I don’t try to qualify for the girls who do that either. I offer and want a comfortable, non-drama and playful relationship to the right person.
No matter how you take it there is a constant stream of feminine. And you are very good in this. In desirable. Keep going out present yourself. And just growing by yourself.