Social Recalibration - elements.
Accpetance | Rejection - as soon as you meet someone there is this sense of I am happy to see you and I am not so happy. Me with bhai | Prachi coming to Dharamshala, when I go to home Prachi | Mom. Snowline | Common floor. People can also pretend or sometime you just don’t know Akhil | Kewat.
Pride - sometime people has this understanding of I know and other person has no idea. Ashish | Mom | Dhaval , maybe I was the same at the time of freelancing, even this sense that oh they will not understand, in meeting in EE. This blocks the conversation and experience because it is unidirectional.
Pretending - I recently did this with sixen, somewhat unawarly, sharing my ideas rather than realities. I tell honestly, talk to my mom like that…. than reading 2 books a week| Piyush. Saying things that will impress other people which they themselves know are not true.
Dominating - there are people like moda, kewat, the guy who took my laptop, or to the point ahyam. When they know other person is having the hard time to say no, they start taking advantage. When you can’t say no, you try to avoid them.
Sympathy - Dhapola was doing it a lot. Sohail do this at some level, poor me, I am not so so because I have served this hand.
Lost in the conversation - this used to happen with Akhil and now it is with J. You are facing the same challenges that you just tuned out in that synergy.
Appreciation - there is a verbal application, acceptance of different level, me and Lin were doing it to each other, J with 36 question.
Goodness - The pricinple of that orphanage, Veerappa, Lin, Sameer, Avinash to the point. Even I am to certain point. They will to do anything that might be good for other people. Sometime they might seems to be someone who looks like qualifying for the attention.
The kids of orphanage - jumping all over me, that kind of authenticity and expression and dependecy and trust. That level of value for your attention. They are very valunrable