Social Recalibration - Happiness | suffering 2.

Social code - There is discomfort in breaking the current social code, when meeting someone talking to them, in Alex wedding wearing the required clothes. Not knowing the social code, should I look at someone !! Creates the unease.

Bi-directional beliefs - there is things that I think is right on the level of beliefs, if you are together, you should be serious. If you are in a cafe you should do the fair deal. When I or someone else violet them then it feels wrong.

negotiating and asking - asking something that you have asked and someone haven’t provide, asking over and over feel bad.

obligation - a relationship comes with obligation, feeling the weight of those obligations I will have to go the wedding, or home feels bad.

When I want someone and someone else is talking to her it feels bad.

 
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