Talking about Lin with Parents.

The truth is I am not comfortable talking about it with parents. I would rather tell them when I am sure.

I am not comfortable because it will scare them and then invite a lot of questions.

I am not comfortable speaking lies as the foundation of the relationships I am buidling should not be the lies.

I know in my heart I didn’t do anything.

so there is only three options, I tell the truth when they ask, before there was a chiness girl and we were good friends and we live together. It will give them the opportunity to handle it, and me the opportunity to handle the conflict, do not underestimate other people. At this point they will have option to break the relationship or they will have to digest it. Life will throw much bigger challenge to digest.

I can also say I am not comfortable discussing it.

Or I can lie that it was a freind. it just feels wrong to lie espeically when I am not doing anything wrong, and it is not a good way to protect them from the truth by speaking lies.

Now the consiquences will be I don’t really care about the samaz and all.