The closing.
- The abuser - direct disrespect, telling you what to do and how to behave. Trying to pin down. Krishnan, the Google guy. Very high self importance and strong clutches on beliefs.
- direct confrontation.
- no/ walk away.
- don’t talk to me like that.
indirect - that will cost you x amount.
the beliefs domination - you are stupid because your beliefs are like that. Or you do that because look that person who did it is stupid. The spirit of the joke makes it either banter or disrespect. Phoolsingh on vipassana.
why you think so.
reciprocate with one of the belief or action from other people.
The loose thread conversation - bombarding of thread, random themes, vague explanation and broken themes. Making other people agree based on sheer confusion, and frustration to stop him. Senseless talk of Rajeev and guy at bir.
listen intently and repeat did you mean that.
Uninteresting threads - talk about other people. Tv shows, the nutral and unwanted thread ( in already comfatable phase )
express your point of view.