The comapnion relation #2 with hrishi.
Now hrishi and me share history, there is a common spiritual spark. A need of meaning and thoughtfulness behind things. At the moment he is suffering severely becasue of the choices he made earlier. He understand and connect with the things I am saying. I can understand what he says. How he feels. He has shared really deep things with me, and enjoys being able to talk to me. There is a true belonging.
There is another side that peeks here and there. The mask and the self importance. There is also unauthentic image he tries to project to other people.
The very foundation of this relationship is true sharing. Deep | meaningful conversations | and real valunerablity . If all we talk about is superficial topics or the images we are trying to protect, it is useless. To make it a safe experience you must start sharing with atmost authenticity and valnurablity the real you. That is the real watering.
Share what you went through, share your values, ask him to go deeper. little play and laugh. Keep it real. Keep it deep.
Setting must be quite place with light food. Keep the volume ±1-2 hours. You must go deep, valnurable and real. No intellectual masterbation or bs.