The conflict and clarity.

There is always reasoning behind different voices, this is conflict. If you can write down the logic behind what you are doing, and write down the reasoning behind the other thoughts, and chose it from the well thought out reason in your principle, then you can always be able to make better decisions.

You can make the better choices if you have the criteria to do verify the truth. and weight different ideas.

There are some garbage kind of thought process in mind, which can be let go.