The effort to build a new relationship.

I am in the relationship on and off with Lin for almost 1 year now. In that one year I get to know her more deeply and connection over time matured with experience of meeting, going out, making out, living together, sharing together.

It takes time to be comfortable and real around each other. It takes effort to ask for the date. Escalate it to the physical contact. Than living together. And deeper bond.

Sometime some people seems attractive form the top but as you know they turn out quiet different. Preksha.

Sometime people are just not available. Esabell.

Sometime the logistics, sixen. And it takes a lot of conscious effort to build the connection and trust, especially as it is not something obvious.

There are many girls in aayana, if I have to go further with Samshree, I first have to initiate the contact. And then take her out. And than talking on the mobile. And then escilating and than living together if she matches my type. Even if there is attraction it takes some serious effort. If you do not show a lot of attention, it turns into disrespect.

Then there is breakup. And that is the story in itself.