The Ego layer [domination].
The foundation is the dillusion of believing I am the reason of all the achievements, I am the centre and world exist to satisfy me.
Cheapness - Bringing others down - The daynamics of dominating other person. Because It feels not so good to be less powerful. Like me telling akhil, how he is doing wrong with working in startup. Raveendra telling me how it is ok because I atleast tried. Critising and making fun of other are also the same category of actions. Instead it should be praising other for their good actions and learn from their good sides.
Beggging - Sympathy seeking - Look how much I endured or how I was served the low hand, grounded in the pricinple of emotional receprocity, is practically emotional begging for attention and social proof. It is the kind of justification for not the world class behaviour that one wants other to believe . It is the mental dialogue when I was about to give unprepared speech. When Mom is telling for her trouble, Syamu is boasting his struggle. Dhaploa. Usually people give the sympathy and it reinforce the behaviour. Instead you can clearity the basic nature of reality, who doesnt have the problem. It is the basic nature of being human.
Screaming - The starvation - screaming, fighting, threatening others. It is direct display of anger and authority. Acting as if other people exist to satisfy you and how dare they didn’t follow that. It is also an outlet of expressing some other suppressed emotions whouch has nothing to with other person. It is the highest form of disrespect. Your emotions are your problem not someone else’s. krishnan shouting on me.
Worship - Playing God - testing other people, making them jump hoops, making them qualify for your attention, clearfying your power domination on face value. giving unasked advices. Telling them what to do in life.
Asura - indirect domination consciously. Manuplation and politics.