The existing relationship and J, Akhil, Family.

The connection I already built, it requires energy to nourish them.

Can all the relationship be utilised in a way that leads to better structure of the me and the mind, can this interaction be good for me and good for other me. can there be possibility of collaboration.

You are going to meet the people who are not going to be aligned with the direction you are travelling in and will be interested in backbiting, idle speech, who enjoy badmouthing others.

It is also helpful to see things from others point of view.

Is there an element of joy in meeting lets say J, Sometime it was very engaging and those thoughts are now in the mind. It may be helpful to divert your attention.

There is a tuning when you meet someone.

The two mes meeting with two different stories with their deffects, meeting people also kind of help you

Living in isolation doesn’t sound good, living in isolation doesn’t sound good either.

If it is a hinderance to your spiriutal growth don’t do it. if It is not then do it.

Meeting with J or any one else is part idle talking and part what are you doing in your life, a part exchanging notes and serving,

but it is un appropriate to not meet old friends, and will lead to the termination of connection and will lead to believing them that me don’t care about them.

So what you are saying is you don’t have any strong desire to meet them but to continue having relationships, you may want to continue meeting them. meeting them cost me in terms of time and practice of vipassana.

Meeting them also lead to loss of time and money, breaking of sila. not meeting anyone leads to complete isolation even delusion.

Living the life in complete isolation for rest of the life is not what I want.

It can also be helpful for other people.

It is the question of what kind of me and the world you want to live in.

The feeling of love and feeling of fear and attachement is the cause. Being with other can also help you see the reality better. The real life is the real game. To front of whom you will test your courage of speaking the truth.

A healthy connection with people can be more stablizing than complete isolation and help you to avoid the extremes. On the level of me some healthy connection to right people are necessary. When observing reality with in that you can build the experiential understanding of living with other people. Your job is to keep your self away from attachment and aversion.

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