The final note on dependence.

The power of dependence to make you at unease, lies into your self importance nature. When you polarised on the layer of self, it becomes you vs me, when someone’s demand or request comes in between your desires you becomes aggressive, defensive, withdrawn.

This is the root cause the mental game of accpetance. Righteousness and desires. The self mastery and light of truth are the real solution. And I am working on it everyday with intensity. But then it will take its time.

The worse approach is reactive.

The best approach is satyagrah| Boundaries| Corrective communication| Mid-way suggestion. Solution oriented thinking. Making best of what we have. This has to be consistently practiced.

The better communication is where you deeply listen adn make sure that other person is understood. Empthaise and then communicate either boundaries, corrective feedback or midway approach.

The peteince is the virtue here, patiently and consistently you keep repeating the same thing. And keep people accountable.

If something bothered you, watch it, take a step back, see what can be done, and solve that pattern once in for all.

Life is too short and nothing is permanent. This is how the game is designed. So play it well and take it light. You know everything will be over before you know.