The first date with Lin.

I am going out with Lin tonight at onesta. And it is a romantic date. And I am leading. For her this is a very new experience. And she is very much looking forward to it. With sort of high attraction.

This is an amazing opportunity to explore something very essential and important to be explored. Probably the most important thing. And it is essential skill to be build. If you want to craft the life you want.

She is here for few months I believe. And it could be nice casual relationship. Where we hang out once or twice a week. Cuddle. Touch. Play physically. Do some activity like salsa. Go out like coorg. Have fun together. Play the game of mesculiene and famine. nobody wants to be alone in this world.

First thing she has to be comfortable. Especially as it is her first time. Talk about non threatening topics. About her hostel, study. How long she is planning to stay, her childhood. Probably make fun of small things. Challange her. Disagree with her. The point is to naturally enter into the stage of resonance.

Slowly move it to relationship track. Talk about relationship, not giving the answers. Different meaning. Teasing. Using sexual hooks. Get into the mood of play.

On the parllel engage her in physical escalation. Give her hugs. Touch her back, and then neck. Pet keep your hand there. Teach her pranayama. Breaking the physical distance in the limit of appropriateness.

Then take a walk to brewsky. Have a nice glass of wine. Deeply appricate her real points. Be more direct in physical contact. And end with a kiss.

Take a nice walk afterward. Probably kiss her again and leave it there. Until it is very clear she wants to come home in that case take her to home.

 
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