Social Recalibration - The good advices.

The need of importance - everybody has this need of being important, same place from where the need of impressing others arises. This is why everyone including me is trying correct other people, gain their acceptance, prove them wrong, act according to our beliefs in a way that will impress other person. This is why it is stupid to correct other person as it will hurt their sense of importance. On the other hand genuinely praise and complement and accept other increases their senes of importance. Even intently listening someone. Respecting their beliefs or whatever they are saying isn’t after all bad idea.

the level of conversation - if the conversation is specific keep it specific, if it is general keep it general. Either you are are talking about weather marriage is a good idea or not, or you are talking about how to find your partner. People has tendency to mix them when they are feeling insecure.

the role of people- other person either know on a subject more than you, or at the same level, or know less. Know this. Either you are teacher, student or equal, the most common and frustrating thing is to see a person with relatively no knowledge advising the master of that. Keep the role clear. If person with less knowledge is not willing to listen stop encouraging him by asking questions.

love people according to their love language - Give gifts to Lin. Hugs and appriciation to J. Word of appreciation to mom. Word of affirmation to Prachi, Act of service to brother.

laugh at yourself - there is nothing more easing as someone willing to laugh on himself, how could you tense someone who is just not willing to admit his mistake but even willing to laugh on them, when we feel secure it happens bydeatult.

There could be many advices, I might compile them as they come to my mind.