The happiness of ego.

Hurting self-respect - Disrespecting knowigly [ krishnan ] and disrespecting in ignorance [ prachi ], in both cases other person put him first, and than it creates strong resentment in my heart. So much so than I started to be protective angainst any one near me. The intensity increases with the proportion of public. The ideal scenario is to clearly communicate it at the moment. Transmute the thoughts of resentment with thought of descory of learning space and the infinite opportunity in future, thank wholeheartedly other person to bringing it in your awareness and creating opportunity for you to grow.

Impressive argument - asking a question that impresses another person, futuristic or old. Tenzin palmo or sandeep maheswari, there is no desire to find the answer but to either impress a person I consider supirior or a group of people. Transmute the direction with sincer gratitude for their help in my growth,

Treating others as suboridnate and giving them advice - Mom, brother, akhil how they should behave. Now that I think I am doing it so much these days. But when I do I should transmute the thoughts with sincere desire for them to flourish, instead of me giving them advice and ready to be in their service at the time of the need.

Rationalising my superiority | justifying myself - Ego uses intellect to make sure it is always right. Rationalising my position as right in different argument, when other people are actually right than i started to attack their character to make their argument invalid. This is an insecure behaviour. transmute the direction of thought by thanking them to help me grow my knowledge.