The long game.

In the window of next six months. I would have extremely integrated and clear social conduct. Where to assert, where to connect, and where to polarize. I would have more understanding of intimate relationship, as I will experience them more. I will have more clear expression of myself. And robust view on an interaction.

What I offer is a clean groomed well dressed and in great shape and look. A man with authantic purpose and mission and drive. A good heart. And strong strength. Some one who leads authentically. some one who knows where he is going. Someone with a lot of experience of life. A great movement of progress. Someone with genuine courage. What I offer is character. With polished personality. Play. Connection and strengths.

What I offer is great communication, laughs, story, understanding, connections. Someone who understand other person’s state of mind and can calibrate accordingly. Someone who is not going indirect with no soical clue but someone who can take responsibility. Show direct and clear desires. And take no without any drama. What I offer is respect.

What others offer is coolness, show, fancy-toy, appearance, jokes on others, threate to leave. Condition and bondage by aggression or manuplation. Flashing halos without substance. Talking about how stupid other people are and cool stuffs. The new movie and a noisy mind.

what girls offers physical appearance, clothes, makeup, heels… their capacity to arouse a man. Their desire to be noticed and appreciated.

Their frigility, their need to be taken care of. their sweet demands that makes man feel powerful. Their complete surrender.

What girls offers is their caring and service. Their love and depth of connection, their closessness. Theri trust. Their company and their attraction. A possiblity of the bond of a different depth.

what girls offers is their completely groundless preferences. Their inflated sense of self based on attentions, their uncompromising self-absorbed attitude. Their self importance. Their challnages.

Their is also a conditioning that happens to a girl. By countless approaches and unwanted communications she becomes close. She don’t want another one of cheap. The more tight she is chances are more she has been hit.

A girl doesn’t want to be left alone. Ofcourse she is looking for a man. Every single one of them, just like man are looking for women, Just like man most of them are afraid of rejection or taking resposibity. So they go around. Reject. Try to hide in the book. Their internal system is firing rounds of anxiety. Their internal system is more crazy. Make it easy for them.