The oppotnuity for diplomacy.
So I stayed for here for a month, I was generous, paid everything upfront, and now I am being taken advantage of.
My stay for month wasn’t bad, and the mistake I did was assumed certain things. I assumed we would charge me for poha same as he would charge me for khichadi. But I am sure that’s not the case.
Yesterday I saw he was trying to slip 200 rs. extra. And that broke the trust.
Now he is 50+, and drinks a lot, probably has been ripped many times. He is also crafty and manipulative, and there are people like that.
All the sudden he is playing very defensive and aggressive, and he is pushing, trying to threaten me wants to fight.
He is actually trying to ask for 700 extra, and maybe something extra in food.
A part of me wants to say you motherfucker, cheating and then trying to show me and tell me how wrong he is, and then this is an opportunity to handle these scenario.
What i want to see is how much I ripped for food, and I am going to see, then I have to talk about this 300rs/ extra. And the last bargenining is 400rs extra.
I don’t want to yell and do any personal attack and don’t want to back down either. Here are the 3 points I want to discuss, food bill, extra towel charge, and extra room charge, that’s it. No personal attack, and if he is trying to be personal mention it. Right. He can throw tantrum but still these things has to be discussed.
There is absolutely nothing you will gain by blaming or expressing any anger. A win will constitute, a conversation without blaming and if you can get 300/- off. A super win would be if you can get 400/off.
A loss constitute if you can’t get to see any account details for food. Get it clear in night, morning I will leave.
Tommorw I am leaving this place.