The pipeline of emotional tank.
The consistent supply to the emotional tank in a way that really fills it. ofcourse only having deep conversation is not going to do it. you need a different settings as well. a play. an adventure, a conversation, little poking and fun.
Find with the practicing how much is perfect balance for you.
Hanging out in a place of interest - 5-6 time a week.
Blossam a new relation - Until you have atleast 5 companion and a romantic relation. master the process of building these relationships.
Hanging out with a companion - atleast once a week. take it till twice a week.
Help a stranger - do give 30 atleast once a week.