The possibility of relationship between two people.

At one level we are same, at that level we don’t need any thing from anyone.

At the second level we have doer. And needs. And the whole world that each person creates. Based on beliefs. Prentenion and lies.

Namrata has a dream that living abroad and working in MNC matters to her. How did she built it ? By seeing her brother telling her stories. Akhil has a dream of car and casual sex and weeds. How did he build it. By seeing people around him telling how happy and cool they are. Akshada has dream. Sam has a dream. The guy who served me has a dream, mahatma gandhi has a dream, I have dream of consistent growth and life lived with clarity. Alex has a dream. Chetan has a dream. Some has a dream of sitting in quite place. Dhapola created a dream of poor me.

There certain elements that influences these dreams. The acceptance of others. Even when Chetan said some did it really nice. I felt accepted. When Anurag made fun of me i feel rejected. What they accept and reject is your beliefs. What they make fun of is your dream.

Some dreams are templates of haven, some are mediocrity and some just down right ticket for suffering.

When dreams align there would be a co-creation of a small dream together. Prafull and his wife. Namrata and .. Jubin and .. Akhil and Neha. Anurag and Estela. Sam and Shantanu.

More often one person strat to pretend because of the need he has for example to not be lonely. He will act like other person want him to. Maybe like Shantanu is acting in a way he thinks Sam will like. Of Ak Himalayas acting in a way hippie type of people will like him. Other person also acting amaturely either by assumptions or she is also just pretending. The foundation is so shallow. Too much work.

Dhapola, sohail, hrishi and kewat are so much self entangled, they can’t think straight.

There is a need to make yourself right. This makes us create the denial system. Akhil will justify his need of being right.

 
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