The problem of realtionship,
The fan guy at BAL is perfect example. When you get into a zone of familiarity with a person, now it becomes an obligation of some sort to smile at them, and they become comfortable about asking favour.
Now they want to use you as an instrument to fulfill their desire. It is kind of awakward when someone you don’t feel comfortable becomes comfartable. And then there are these conflicts of understanding.
You can be nice to all people but be careful about who you should be getting closer to. Keep your expression neat and clear. If you can do that and let other people take personally and leave you. You have won the biggest battle inside.
If can certainly help people. Nothing wrong their, but you don’t need to play all the games being offered.