The relationship vs. marriage.
The relationship is one thing, marriage is whole different game. And raising a child is the whole different arrangement and blocks and requires you to go in a different direction.
Do you want relationship only!!. Do you want a relationship which is moving in the direction of marriage!!. Would you consider a child in future!!
The restriction of freedom by imagining up having a child is scary at this point. Relationship I feel quiet sure of. But marriage I have no strong desire to be in. And all the drama that comes with it.
These are progressive stages, once you have mastered the relationship, than the question of marraige comes. When you have mastered the marriage than the question of child comes. It is possible to have marriage without child. It is possible to have deep relationship without marriage.