The relatioship with Lin.
The good thing about the relationship with Lin was how open she was. To everything, and she really had a very high attraction. There is a connection, intimacy, giving from both side. Similarity. In one way it was fairly good match.
Then why I broke up. I did it becasue I had seen all the aspect of relationship and wanted to explore more. If you are tied to her how can you explore further. Do I still want to explore more? Yes.
The process of broke up wasn’t fun for her or me. I became more withdrawn because i didn’t want half expectations based moving on. Which is somewhere in between yes and no.
I also somewhat thought her age is 31 and she should look for more long term relationship, instead of unsure one.
I am still sure, I want to meet new people and explore relationship with them, and I don’t want to tied in any kind of commitment.
But I loved what we had and would love to explore more of it. Deep but non committed.
Am I sorry for what I did? Look I felt bad the pearcing heart. And I did what was best in terms of my understanding. But it did came out harsh. I can apologise for it, see if she wants non-committed relationship or friendship. Help her. Respect her. But be clear.
This is a good deep genuine relationship but non-committed.
Meet her on Thursday and set the date on Saturday. Respect her.