The social bucket.

At the moment I have good ties with my family. mom, dad, bhai and Prachi. Then I am almost in a relationship with Lin. Me and Jeylasa has become pretty good friend and keep meeting every other week.

Preksha came and fade away, ritika became friend, I don’t like her habit of gossiping about other people and me. Akhil, Dhapola and Anurag seems to fading out in a river of time. So is people like pratap and Tushar. I am in occasional contact with sohail.

A1000 Yoga was a nice community. I had a good stranger relationship with charan, Swati, Nishara, Vineet, Divya. And then a decent exchnage of belonging with people who come there.

Ashayien is another community I liked. and enjoyed meeting people and serving there. Toastmasters is something that really collide with my interest, but I found some people are kind of self-centered and no true belonging seems to be present. and I am totally offset with couchserfing community. Then there was this salsa community.

There are self growth, yoga, meditation communities out there. Around the world. From example GLP camp. Which I would like to engage with.

And then as I am more engaged with my work, I will meet more people who are aligned with me

So again question comes what you want from your social life, you have a good family, loving girlfriend, friend and communities.

In a social context you can give and get, love and acceptance. Play and explore together. Share and be there and uplift. Serve.

Qualify, dominate, show-off, impress, compete, win, advice, fight. Disrespect.

The need comes from aloneness, kind of husking and when I am out of balance it distorts the vision. And joining salsa class become pritiory without knowing why. But if you are decently fed, the need is not there. And the novelty experiences and play keep the experice alive. And then too much social activity dearrages. The fine balance needs to be find.

Family - Mom,Dad,Bhai,Prachi.
Active Rleationship - Lin.
Active Friends - Jeylasa, Ritika, Preksha.
Active Communties - A1000yoga, Ashaiyen.
Passive Friends - Akhil, Ashish, Sohail, Tushar.

Potential stream - Toastmasters [deejaoys, BTM], NewYogaStudio, Cult-Zumba, Salsa-class. Work, Starting communities. Kormangala-coworker. Teacher-training.

• Take full swing on the relationship with Lin. Love|Acceptance, Play|Explore, Share|Uplift. Keep it exploring and interesting.
• Engage more with ashayien, find a new yoga studio, see if you can find a decent toastmaster. Do one Zumba per week. Try Dam ur way - salsa.
• Friendly love|explore|share with J.
• give love and acceptance to family.

This should keep your soical bucket really full. And as your work matures you will automatically start to be in contact with correct type of people.