SG - ground your self.

this is clearly going to be my focus for sometimes to come. this is affecting everything and most under looked, poorer area of my life. so I put my ego aside and started to read this book the dating playbook for men. and this has to be one of those book I read faster than anything. I could hardly sleep last night. the gross level of framework.

ground yourself - the trick is self knowledge here, pretty much foundational step for anything. the grounded man respect himself, respect other and respected by other. and offer instead of taking value. he knows what he want in life sort of guy. no body likes a man when he is trying to get something from them. you got to have something more important than women in your life. and that is a big turn on.

grounded man is man of action, confident direct and clear in his wants and intention. he doesn’t need a women he wants a women. the man who is completely self reliance on one’s own capabilities, judgement and resources. he is in control of his own life, he is the captain of his ship not the crew member. women can not help but respond to self mastery. because you stand out in the world which is mostly fake.

grounded man doesn’t work for comfort but he work hard to bring the meaning in life. he doesn’t tolerate the second class behavior. he has strong values and aligns his life to them. he doesn’t allow anything in his life which conflicts with these values even women. most people are in the needy zone.

there is no way anyone can be successful in long term if you act against what you believe, act against your heart. you don’t have to be billionaire, but you got to have your shit together. love yourself and be leader in something big or small. the better you become the more value you can offer to others.

travel is how you fully ground yourself. start dating yourself, get lost in your own curiosity. although women want to be the only important thing in mans life, but at her core, she doesn’t really want. she wants you to have your purpose and she wants to come along for the ride.

you really have no excuses as why you can’t build a social life. you need to be more proactive about putting yourself out there taking leadership roles.

you are being a free man. free of constrains, fear, any outcome, free from your ego. this is wildly attractive to anyone. you need to assert yourself more to get what you want in life.

the grounded man holds a strong internal frame, he is a rock, mountain that can’t be moved. dominance is staying on your path no matter what. life experience is how you cultivate strong masculine polarity. anything of power takes time to build, start asserting yourself more with people and situation to get your needs meet.

this totally sounds like me without asserting myself in social situations.