The soical field.

There are 2 main scenarios when you hang out in social fields. Groups and single. The groups are more shallow, and single is more personal.

With other person we can have few types of relationships. Stranger. Companion. Romantic. Family. Every step gets more personal.

In a relationship two people brings two different world. There is a desire of acceptance. Sharing these dreams. Dominating. Affection. Expression. Exploration. Serving.

When there is a desire of acceptance, we pretend. When there is desire of domination we are afraid. Both are sign of dependent states. Rooted in insecurities and self esteem. They create poor relationships. If the problem is in self esteem, more social interaction and proving will not help to build it but silent self mastery will. If you take things perosnally, there is no end of remedies.

Sharing creates the bond. Affection and playing creats the ease and liking. Exploration creates fun. Serving creats meaning. These are the elements of relationship.

Have a rock solid self esteem and then explore. some time you find incridble connections. Sharing from heart without expectations does make you feel good.

Your social interactions are also giving you. Good sign how you are doing in terms of your self esteem.

Truly express yourself. Familiarise yourself. Let go or go In. Allow god to express himself. Explore their stories. Practice the element of communications. Have laugh and fun and truly express yourself.

Be the part of communities you are engaged in, introduce yourself and build the connection. Some time there will be resonance and some time no resonance. Explore their stories and play with presence. Respect them.

Explore the romantic relationship if there is a chance and connection. Take them out. Play with them. Learn at the least.

Explore with the companion. Involve them in mutual projects. Co-create. Be there for each other.

Practice and keep adding true expression, sharing, playing, asserting, in each conversation.

Be there for family. infuse the life. Lonely not in my presence.

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