The strategy.
If you can win the battle of acceptance and attraction, you have freed yourself from the tyranny of this dillusion. And can see the things as they are.
if you can ground yourself in the self even against the extreme abuse of ego, you can see clearly and lovingly in the most polarizing situations.
If you know the patterns of ego and know your stand, how could they off-balance you. Same few pattern of disturbance, endlessly repeating.
If you want to have a good time, you can’t because that is the ego. If it i self vs self you will have the good time wether you want it or not. And you can learn the pattern and compassion if it self. It is an opportunity to practice self mastery. Until you get it.