The Three Big Question On Relationship.

Marriage no marriage.
Relationship no relationship.
Lin no Lin.

At the moment I feel stuck and How can I make these choices. The default decision is an ambiguous no and poor self-esteem. The better than ambiguous no is a hard no. You will face a stream of choices like these in the life.

With Lin she has so many incredible qualities, resonance, sharing, she is a good partner, but she has a poor health, age and nationality issue. I feel good with her emotionally. Would I get in to serious relationship with her if she didn’t has health issue and nationality problem, I guess no. I would have some other issue again the problem is in the level of mind.

Do I want to be in a relationship or not. I think as I spent more time with lin It becomes more clear with experience. on the level of thoughts it is going to be conlficitng. then I feel at unease at the moment because I am in the realm of mind.

Marriage is out of the question at this point.

And there is a possibility of relationship without getting married.

Another challenge I face is To make the decision like these you need to understand the truth and principle but to get to the truth and principle you need to constantly act.

so for now marraige is out of the question. now the question is do I want to be in the relationship or not. not being in a relationship will be beneficial for the spiritual growth and you will have to learn to live by yourself if you are really sincere about it. If you go the relationship route, it will have to eventually grow into deeper and deeper attachment.

on the other hand you can have more data and clear understanding if you live with her more and the possiblities.

what if we can live like a partner uplifiting each other without sexual passions.

see the question of relationship and non relationship can also be solved after you librate yourself. you are also doubting if you wanna go that far.

Question really is to live with lin or let her go.