The whole nine yard.

Know the elements - you do know them intuitively, but mediate and deeply realise it. Make sure you can see it. Needy| stable. Love | hatered. Self-importace | self deprecation. Similar | different. Acceptance| rejection. Domination| submission. Attractive| unattractive.

selection - wrong vibe, high self importance, closeness. Let go. attraction | similarity. These are the two main parameter.

deep | learning - these are the two main stance. Explore both of them. And communicate it.

process - introduce yourself, or become familiar naturally. If the conversation goes right, go for a chai| ice-cream, exchange phone number and set up something on Sunday. Setup dates and escilate. Polarize by going out or hanging out either one of your place.

relationship - balance it with time. have breakfast together. Or have a dinner together. Dates. And ocassionaly going out. Having personal lives and uplifiting mutually.

end - if things are not going right or major difference in interest. Take a decisive blow and move on.

Meditate on this.