Leading into…

The first thing you need to do is clearly polarize and kill the ambiguity. At this point her attraction is very clear. You are also very interested. Kill the indirect communication, attempts to test other person’s interest and start the relationship. The polarisation happens when you either verbally agreed or kissed. And that can only happens when you had make a move.

There are two ways to do it. Either you setup the date, polarize yourself. Or you meet and escilate until she brings it. There is also a natural escalation like Lin. It is more easy as you meet more.

Keep fascitilating meetings and dates for the whole month, show her that you are interested, find the right moment and then polarize either by kiss or by verbal esiclation.

Once you have done that. The realtionship begins. First thing you need a space where she can come and you can be intimate with her. Your place is good for now, even her place, in few months you will get a proper 1-2bhk. And also a trip to outside every month or so.

After polarisation you meet and discuss the regular things with her. Uplift where you can. Play and enjoy the company of each other. Have once a week dinner. Share and be real.

What is most important is deeper physical intimacy. Kiss her, touch her, build that sexual bubble. Explore that game of mesculiene and feminine.

And then there is an unknown organic element of closeness and intimacy that can only be enjoy when you are in that space.

So ultimately you are killing the aloneness with having a good company where we share the regular pursuits, affection and acceptance, uplifting each other, playing, fighting, and then there is sexual affection and closeness. It is more interesting this way.

Polarization and Main character

Sharing the pursuites, Affection and Acceptance, Dates and Physical Intimacy, Friction and fights, Exploration, Learing and Growing.

What it is not is prenteding to be liked, escapes, and playing ambigious games.