What I am looking for in a relationship.

there is a desire for attractive body and apparel. I feel attraction towards it, this is not in the main point and I would rather let it go. this is the one which distort the view.

Relationship is not the only thing, there are these romantic couples, who’s centre is relationship. For me this is not going to be true. I am going to live more of purpose oriented and ambition driven life.

On the larger scale the value should match. Can not be someone who is drinking, smoking and havily materialistic. The direction should match spiritually. The ideas of what marriage is, what relationship is.

A kind of basic goodness intact, The basic nature is you give and you take, it s not like you just take. you share, you feel happy when someone succeed. you feel joyful in making other happy.

A kind of open mindedness, growth mindset. the willingness to change and be better.

A healthy self esteem, not a doormat. capability to say no when someone is being unfair. can not be someone who just listen to other person without thinking on her own. doesn’t need to be very critical thinker but should have her opinion and open mindedness.

A loyalness, not someone wants to just run away with next best option, or things get hard, kind of just give up.