What if.

If really love is coming from inside. What if the foundation of soical life is the genuine service of others.

What if I genuinely start to help people where I can actually do. Start loving people who can not give me back anything. Selflessly. Not at the price of self sacrifice. Not because that will lead me to good relationship. Would that very act will fill emotional need ?

What is this emotional need ? And how that can be filled ? Is it really the problem ? Or my own selfish desires ? Or my own substance less chase ? Am I really understanding, what signal life is giving me ?

Is this pursuit that I think can be filled with companion and romantic relationships is really the need that can be filled with selfless love to the one who seriously needs it.

Is life asking me to serve and share and I am clinging to my own selfish desires.

Can I renounce this forced idea of romantic relationship. And start focusing to love the people deeply. The one who are really starving for it. If love is coming from inside.

What if for the next month I love with the heart of a dog. Any one who needs it. Or feeling alone. What happen if I don’t get married. Have no girlfriend. But many people in my life who wants to grow and we are planning together, trgether for their growth. As a community for their growth. Would that fill my emotional need.

What if I love dogs, donkeys, trees and everything around me. With the heart of a child. Forgetting about my petty self-cherishing desire. Will that fill my emotional tank.

What if I turn my complete attention to find these opportunity and start praticing it. Instead of looking for romantic relationship. And companions.

Doesn’t mean I will renounce the very idea of romantic and companion relationship. Ofcourse i will act when opportunity present themself. But what if I stop putting deliberate effort there. And start focusing in the direction of loving sellflessly to the ones who needs it. Cheerish for the ones who are moving ahead in any way.

What if I harness the old relationship and start loving and supporting them. Where ever possible.

What if the romantic and companion relationships are just side channel and real supply to emotional tank is selfless service.