Why I need to take the decision on the relationship, marriage, and Lin.

• by living in ambiguity I am becoming weak, indecisive. things are decaying and creating bad taste. If you are not leading it forward it is sliding backward.
• do not waste your time and her time. the consequences come later. you are 29 and she is 32, this will keep her on the hook and you will find yourself in a very tight spot later.
• the problem will not be solved by itself, be the man and do the right thing.
• the choice you need to take whether you want to take it forward or you want to end it.
• the way you are moving is impulsive, you are just keep taking easy choices and keep making yourself weaker.