Why I want to be good at social skill

So this is becoming one of major priority at the moment. I want to be clear at why I care about it ?

If I look back or see my current situation so much of unnecessary suffering is coming from being naive in this area. So much of the energy is spent on trying to cover it up. And I am missing so much in the life because of it. And then it is such s primitive skill. That anything external will be fundamentally be a social thing. For example job. The contact is fairly unavoidable like oxigin.

And what I really mean by social skills?
I am not alone in the world. And humans are predators. I am actually sharing my life with them, Clearly understand there is a game or dynamics happening in between here. Clearly understand the game. Clear your expectation. Understand this game throughly. Walk the world without being Carried away by it. This is the biggest challenge. You really don’t have a choice to participate in it. There is some good parts and than a lot of bad as well. And not making choice on it will lead to worse.