Win-win #1 - The screamer group

[ abusers, screamer, disrespector, advisior ] - On the meta level other person is saying your beliefs are unworthy, you are unworthy. You should do this thing. Let me show you the way.

Ankit father beating him, Krishana saying ya, that will not work here, mom shouting at prachi, so you would see. BL sharma saying his father is just an employee. You should do the job by chetanya.

The pattern with different intensity is just superimposing their understanding on other, the lesser the understating, deeper the attachment the more louder the voice is.

• The easy reaction would be to just listen and don’t say anything. In that case you are encouraging them.
• The other response would be set a boundaries, and make clear you would not respond to screaming and abusing, ask them to speak like a normal person. You can add penalties to this satyagrah, not talking, withdraw.
• You can also just listen what they are saying and repeat so they feel like heard. Even against the loud noise. You listen clearly and tell them is that what you mean! If they are shouting and screaming their must be something really important to them.

-With the abuser and screamer there needs to be boundaries and penalities. With disrespector and advisior there need to be clear communication and feedback.