Healthy and unhealthy cycles of relationship.

Just like mind there are healthy and unhealthy cycles of relationship. Unhealthy cycle is first of all projecting your problems as others, creating a sense of obligation in other, closing off. doing things out of obligation, not sharing, strong judgement.

Healthy relationship is when you are happy and you are sharing your happiness. You are intensely present with other person. You are alive and hasn’t given up. You don’t control other person in any way and give them space.

One of the most concerning aspect of relationship is to compromises. for now I need to act more sexually not because I want to but because of in a way kind of obligation. So is spending time, it definitely ask for compromise and sacrifices. If I just do what I want it starts to become feeble.

Another thing to understand is my naive personality at this point, To me synechron was a great company, and so on so forth. I see goodness, maybe too much of it in other people sometimes.