Being annoyed.

I was getting annoyed with what stubbornness of Lin. My mind more precisely the voice in my head suggesting that I should leave her etc. She was basically challenging my ideas. She was making me feel annoying by saying or doing things I don’t want to listen. and not doing things that I want her to do. the net result that the voice that wants to leave her, then she came and do things I want her to do and the voice is that its ok. and it only stay that long and then pass away.

Always think of the voice as input and learn to ignore or do just opposite of the voice. This is the real chance it is telling you your preferences and habits, and beliefs. this is where the real possible chnage can happen.

Now also notice what exactly happened she can also be acting in the incorrect way, you need to communicate that with her as well.

Also when you are unsuccessful see what happened and change your strategy.