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peoples are not as they appear. the nature of human is duplicitous. they same something else and practice entirely something else. they talk from conscious and act from subconscious. and most of the peoples are completely unaware of this conditioning. humans are animal but they will prefer to think themselves as angel .

there is a common agreement that I was fail to see before. it is not what you do but what you say you do, consider somewhat true. as long as you can explain in courteous manner and pretend innocent the slaughterhouse is fine. this is an important thing to understand the most important thing is to play the game. even for the person in power suppose to do it. so others can justify their fear.

so the guy who can call the bluff has the power to play with the self esteem of others. If you can understand the conflict in person in front of you. you hold the insane power. this is basically destroying their idea of self. and this is a big deal for a lot of people. and it is justified as long as you do in innocent courteous manner.

this becomes insanely important in inter-gender dynamics. because females are far more duplicitous than man. maybe it is their security design. but they like to play this game. in general they are not designed to be deep, contemplative types. but they are extremely good in this game.they know how to shit test don’t they and the most attractive thing might be the guy who can call the bluff.