Disrespect.

I can still remember vividly the way that waiter at satyam avoided me by first looking up and down and then disrespecting by not bringing the water. I asked him to bring the water because of the issue of respect, ofcourse I can go and take it myself.

There are two fold in the story, direct disrespect and the emotion it conjure up. And then dealing with it.

The truth is the problem is in him. He is a minor and smoking and working in a cafe, not studying, it is creating this issue. And he is bad mouthing other or disgusted by other

What if he really think I am stupid. How does it make the difference.

I can not think stright when the emotions comes.

The sign is I do not understand how to handle insulting behaviour.

The second thing in reality he needs guidance. And his life is much much harder than yours. This is kind of defense system he has built.

It was just a sign that you need to learn to deal with these kind of situations. That’s all. It has done it’s job and passed away.