Relationship differences.
There will be differences in the relationship and it is charging when someone acts with an affliction.
Know that most likely people’s nature does not change easily. If you are in a relationship with some kind of person that be certain you will be with that sort of person.
A person has the right to act in any way they want to act. They even have right to destroy themself with alcohol. The other person should interfer when one she the destructive tendency in others. If other person does not wants to change than one has right to leave her. This should not become the blame game, or in a way hurtful existence.
There should be willingness to talk and concensus about how to be in the relationship, the shared dream, what is the foundation, and rightful expectation. If that does not match the person should just move on.
The more common direction the better.
Each one of the person should have intent to work on the relationship.
Each one should not inflict ones emotional issue on others.