The indecision.

There is a kind of indecision, in the family. Mom and dad wants to come here to meet me I guess. Bhai and parchi seems ok. But they are all looking for me to make a decision. How do I make such decision.

Then mom has her own problem right, she can hardly compromise and severaly test and accuse me. She is going to throw a lot of emotional poison around.

What is the purpose of get together in family. Is to love each other, to make sure other knows we are here for you to support. What it is not is to blame and control and demand from each other.

Before you can lead make sure you understand what is a perfect relationship, so if things go sideways you know what is happening, just fighting and shouting and formality is simply not the right reason to meet. It is only going to detoreate the relationship.

But How do I know this, by thinking and asking question.

So what should I do now ? You do have a lot of understanding, sit down and right all of that. Make a template of family relationship. And then go further. That’s how you develop yourself.