nitesh sharma

Professional Programmer, Introverted traveler, and Admirer of classics.

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The Types of dependent people.

Screamers - krishnan, the guy with the bike, the scolder of mom, Vidyashram, mom. It is literally screaming when things are not going your way. Or other person is not behaving your way. Mom does it all the time.

Disrespecter - Vinod, Ashish rai. BL sharma, Ritika, Medha, The Mumbai girls friend, punjabi boys. It is complete disregards for others opnions and cutting and crossing and laughing at others version of reality probably while they themself drinking and abusing drugs.

Advisior - Kaustubh, Chetanaya. Dhaval, Borderline geshan, These people are advisiors and they like to give advice and play mentor.

The greedy - papa, give me 100rs auto, the wife of dharamkot in, the very strong hold on my own win, complete desregards of the rules or others convince.

The abuser - Ankit father, but then polish girl, the guy who asked for 100rs, at some level Anurag, these people are somewhat...

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Dependent is the state not the person.

It is again the same element. The ego and the self. Mom feeds me and her head shot, and then her scream and disrespect. Prachi serving food and giving and then crying for the poly bag. Me paying bill and then asking to pay for the ice cream. Every person will have both. Degree of switches will be subjective for sure.

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Patterns of dependent relationship.

Look, This is what you should do - I do this, constantly proving to the charcter of akhil, what he should be doing. In a way advicing and telling him. What is right and what is wrong. Telling him what he should be doing.

Come to home - this is the moms pets peeve. You can do all this here. Justify why don’t you come here. Akhil do the same, why don’t you come to Pune. Prove if you care. I had the same expectation when akhil first got into relationship.

The auto walla’s ok sit - I am doing bussiness with you with the hint of Ahasaan. The another one is like give me 100rs. Screaming and shouting of vidhyashram.

This is mine - prachi’s tendency to hold her things tightly. I don’t want to share the wax, or poly bag.

you are not sending us money - papa’s greed and inherent assumption of why don’t you take care of us.

Playing games - Anurag manuplation game and taking advantage when...

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The art of dependent relationship.

Every one is in their own world, Mom has her own fabric of reality with me playing a part in it. so is prachi, so is akhil, sohail, raveendra, tushar, lin, J, preksha, person infront of me, the person in back of me.

some persons are completely absorbed in their dream. some people are willing to listen, some people are willing to give.

these are not people but state, I go in and out from it all the time, people go in and out from it all the time.

this is the world you have to live in, these are the people you will work with, having relationships with, these are people working for you, these are the people you have to lead.

These patterns can be seen within yourself. they are the same element some has learned their lessons, some are still learning.

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Week #72-73

Spirituality -

  • vipassna 2hr.
  • meditating when on the reaction trap.
  • unbeatable mind.

Social -

  • master the art of dependent relationship
  • meditate on end to end romantic relationship
  • community
    • mindfit
    • innov8
    • ashayien.

Work -

  • the career workshop
  • business box
    • zero to one…
  • English and grammer.

Health -

  • The food for alert | energetic | nourishing body and the proteins.
  • APM
  • building self practice morning.
  • the deficit check.

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know what matters

spirituality -

  • 2 hrs of meditation ( vipassana + metta ) with sampajanna,
  • practice moment to moment awareness.
  • meditate when going through reaction trap.
  • impeccability of words
  • books.

work -

  • what need I can solve, what is my focused product, how can I research it, build it and market it.
  • create the business box, learn more about business, read fanatically, watch interviews, autobiography. build strong awareness.
  • how can I harness my strength, unique position, and infuse meaning?

relationships -

  • the self-love, ease and expression | master the complete emotional spectrum.
  • master the art of communicating with dependent people.
  • proactively build romantic relationships and master the art of it.
  • master family relationship.
  • master day to day relationship
  • acceptance trap.

health -

  • reaudit food| timing | based on alert, energetic, nourishing. protein.
  • deficit and regular check.
  • ...

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the practical steps

  1. learn more about the business. read fanatically, watch interviews, bring more awareness of the business. read as much as possible.

  2. what is my focused product. what need I am serving. what is my product going to look like, market research and how will I build that.

  3. how can I harnish my strengths, unique position and meaning.

  4. create business box.

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the elements of work.

serving the need of others - seeing and learning and being able to identify the others need, and then properly market it.

the game of business - learning to play the whole game, competition, business, funding, product, brand, placement, employee all the things. this is quite interesting and one hell of the game. reading autobiographies and books on the business. watch interviews. learn the immutable law of business.

working for the jonathan | robin sharma - maybe remote, maybe on location. observe and learn from the people who are already doing the business. travel, network and grow your self along the way. you did learn a lot from alex.

forge your own path- ultimately your experience is what really matters, hustle, take a step infront of another, grow your own experiential knowledge, forge your way through. this is the direct path.

serving and swadharma - play your strength...

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The elements of work.

the other’s need and value - you must have to provide value to someones need, serve.

finance - you must figure out in some way to support yourself financially before you enter in the danger zone.

grow - you have to constantly evolve as a being.

swadharma -

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The work

work with Jonathan field, robin sharma.. work with people already established in this bussiness, you will be financed, introduced to the different aspect of bussiness. And accelerate your growth. But it will restrict your freedom. You can do it remote.

learn the game of bussiness - learn this bussiness, how to play this game of fullfilling others need in a profitable manner. The element of it and How others did it. Read their autobiographies.

workshops and speech - deliver the speech on confusion to clarity and workshops, events, career workshop for collage students. Hustle your way through building and serving audience.

travel the world | attend the workshops - travel the world and attend the workshops by all these people while working as programmer.

continue - keep taking one step infront of other in the directed area, create the next video, learn to market better, give the next...

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