Wrote over 1000 posts, speech craft program, build the blog.

I started with reading intelligent investor and rich dad and poor dad.

Then working throughly with good life project and concept of swadharama to understand the next step. And went through the process of undrestanding the strengths, swadaharma, values..

I thought quite deeply of the possibility and where to start, concieveing metainsight. A lot of research around how other people are doing it.

Build the website and first video. Started the Facebook page.

Marketing management, Quotes campagin.

Learn to create the quality videos, upgraded the equipment. Learnt the premium pro, SEO, Created the series of confusion to clarity. Tried AdWords, self mastery, the autobiography….

First interview. Conceptualising book.

Realising it is about the other people need. And understanding the bussiness. Moving towards bussiness.

Swadharma- The clarity, knowledge, understanding.

Bussiness - clear understanding of other peoples need, pain point and inovating, building, packaging, marketing, selling, produts.

Finance - earning 5lk/month.

the need of others -
This is center point I am missing at the moment, what are the need of other people that I am serving, how can I get paid. What are their pain points. How can I reach and market it to them.

Finance -
How can I earn money.

bussiness -
The element of bussiness, product, packaging and marketing. Entrepreneurship.

the gap in the market -
What are the hole in the markets, how can I fill that up.

The seperate unit -
Each one of us has a personality, a nature, a reality. Each one of us has to face the consequences of their action. there is kind of suffering associated with it and this isn’t even a real suffering. And then all this is temporary and organic.

The rights of each one -
It is in the power of each member of family to live the life on their own terms, even if that is disastrous, yet it is their inherient right. It is also the right of each person to attempt to control, love or abuse other person. It is also in the right of each person to set the boundaries or deny that abuse.

The responsibility -
It is essentially the responsibility of more mature person to be petient and help less mature person, in that process their is growth for both. It is the responsiblity of more mature person to communicate and set the tone of the relationship which is good for the other person...

WHO :
The daily interactions with the people you meet and deal with and have no particular relationships with.

WHY :

• The structure of the world.
• The sprouting of relationship.
• Basic interdependence and business.

THE ELEMENT:

• Interdependence | business
• domination | submission
• expression
• acceptance | rejection.

WHAT:

• be friendly, generous, and self-expressive.
• respect and allow their preference.
• stricter boundaries, strong communication when bulldozing.
• strong and clear expectations in business.

NEED !
Loneliness and love, deeply coming from avoiding suffering and search love.

WHAT it is !
Firendship is similarity | attraction. Respect for other. [J], [Avinash], [Esabell], [philip]

WHY !
There is acceptance, understanding, common pursuits, this creates ease of expression, because there are similar values, and the comfort of belonging. It kills the loneliness.

ELEMENT !
Self expression, sharing, supporting, building something together, a sense of belonging.

NO FRIENDSHIP !
The difference in values, because there are constant pull of fitting and proving other. Not even willing to listen to other and only interest in one’s reality is just opposite of friendship [Ashish] [Akshaya][Dev-ops in namshi]

IN RELATIONSHIP !
You can hang out have self -expression, just simple self expression and play. build something together, jam, share, go to movies, have dinner. And hours of...

THE BLISS-

• Trust me there isn’t much there.
• Cultivate self-love and bliss within.

WHY -

• Exploration and deep relationship are the two cause to explore relationships.

THE WHY OF YOUR PARTNER -

• Desire, need and attractions are the cause for your partner. once you become familiar they start to search it in you. dating makes the desire strong if it is aligned, weak if not.

THE DEEPER WHY -

• Loneliness and need of love, are deeper cause caused by
• avoiding suffering and being loved.

ELEMENT-

• self expression,
• love| hatred,
• similar| different,
• attractive|unattractive,
• acceptance| rejection,
• domination| submission.

IN THE MIND-

• character | emotions.
• experience is fundamentally different than understanding, it leads to the end of desire.

WAY-

• life’s move,
• communities - selective exploration,
• everyone [data | exprience]

THE SELECTION-

• strong -ve vibe...

deep in their heart people feel lonely, alone, and desperate for love. this creates need or desire for intimacy or even fleeting attraction, these are the cause of desire for intimate relation.

once there is a familaity, if need is there, it start to morph into the desire and start to comeup as a non-verbal cue. as we become more familiar, either it validate our dream or not. if it validate we sincerly start to look into it.

the tricky part here is that because it is coming from the realm of mind, if something is easy and avaliable in abonden quality. we value it less. that is why if you become easily avaliable you have less value. at the same time if you are not avaliable it can loose it’s interest. subtle.

as you go out on date, similarities become clear. similarity of what both of you are looking for. and when not, there is a force.

the ultimate need to be happy and avoid suffering. taking different shapes when manifested in a romantic relationship.

Lin need of having a soulmate, J need, Bhai need, Akhils need, getting rid of suffering of lonliness by social interactions, finding happiness in sharing similar dreams, sex and intimacy. in praise and avoiding rejections,

the need spring from suffering of lonliness and need for love. this love is what everyone is looking for, in the form of acceptance. praise, intimacy, facebook likes.

this suffering of lonliness is what they are afraid of, and trying to get rid of at all cost.

opening up to other people is opening to abuse and being used, or threat. or this internal threat of uncertanity this is why they are closed.

what exactly girls are looking for -

Lin - she was looking for someone decent and loving. just someone who is not abusive and controlling. she loved me taking lead and she following. she loved the authenticity and expression of self. on the other hand she has slightly low self esteem. she also had a need to be in a relationship. she was in india for two years, and haven’t dated anyone.

so she had a desire to be in a relationship, and I was a non judging, confident, hygenic person with whom other person can connect. who took the lead and took her out. she did all the chasing and I escalated.

on the surface it looks though she wasn’t my type but as she became comfortable, man she is quite a different person.

J - she has a desire to make friends. she quickly connected with me, the conversation was easy and flowed nicely. I sent her message and then she took the lead. I escalated. and...