A desire is rooted in knowledge. Understanding of cause and effect or a mental image. You can choose to feed certain kind of knowledge and it will create that kind of desire.

Once the desire is selected the whole nine yard has to be passed. When I saw meditation, the idea of freedom I brought into. That was the beginning.

The repetition of practice strengthen the desire, at this point it is much more intense than at the beginning. Spending 2hrs from 40min. Reading countless books and going deeper and deeper until one day I have realised it. At this point I can not opt out from this,

There is another desire of selfless service. Which is like a seed at the moment. So it is takes more effort to rotate the wheel but in couple of years it will grow its own leg.

It is possible to select the desire by feeding certain kind of knowledge. But it has the whole circle. Some might even last...

One pattern is to resolve a circular pattern of mind. Lack of soical skill. The survival desire. It has emotion. It bothers me If I am not handling them.

The another kind of emotional pull is habit based. If I don’t meditate or take a bath it bothers me.

Then there is something like meeting J. I don’t have a desire, I don’t have no desire.

Then there is wholesome desires, desires to cultivate myself. Better understanding, being in good health. Etc.

Then there are desires rooted completely in understanding, doing selfless service. When the flow of samskara comes, it becomes interesting.

There is another desire to travel the world. I can choose to manifest it or let it go. If I choose it. I have to go through the whole process. And in that process I might become much better person.

An experience happens and it triggers the circular emotions, that becomes the cause of the desire. To not feel that. Becauase that emotion feels bad.

This is what happened with the incident with Prabeesh and unable to speak at farewell, it created the strong desire to overcome that. Than it accompanied by the fear of partner and age. That intensified the desire. It created a very strong pull. Which lasted for more than an year.

At this point the desire has passed or atleast partially. i still feel the pull to read books after books. A part of it is lead by desire and a part is lead by desire of mastery or incomplete knowledge.

Programming, meditation, health, they are all following the same pattern.

MetaInsight was on the other hand was built more with understanding than desire. Yet once the kind of goal is setup and I am certain, it is kind of the same. Reading and watching the...

There are certain kind of interest that are rooted in desire. And it becomes the drive. The desire is rooted in knowledge and mental image.

Coming number one in class, cracking IIT, freelancing. Mastering programming, going outside India, booz and party. Looking better. becoming better in programming. Meditation. Becoming an excellent programmer. Living outside India. The marraige and becoming better in soical aspect. Vipassana. Health. Vedanta. MetaInsight. Reading.

The key desire which has a lot of force were becoming programmer. Mediation and sprituatliy, And finding partner and social mastery. MetaInsight.

In programming I had some kind of interest from early on, which manifested as work, and then the unease of not being able to do the best job was driving me. There was deep innocent belief of happiness. the image was truly chased with that github project. And was totally...

Communication is the connector between need and skill. And the fundamental aspect is to acknowledge someone’s need and then show them that need can be filled with this product.

There are places where people are looking to find the products that will satisfy their need. Be it meetup or Sadi.com or quora, this is the place where people are searching for their answer. Communication must be done through some channel.

The language of communication must be aligned with what other person is searching especially their subconcious mind.

The advance communication can actually stimulate the need as well. Since most of the wants are rooted in ignorance and a mental image.

The website and packaging and representator also communicate the quality and why.

The brand image and the social proof changes the daynamic in such a way, that it becomes the source of influence of the desire in first place.

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I talked to prachi today. She was in a way avoiding me. And then cleaning after me. The coldness in the general behaviour.

I asked her wo Nagraj lab Rahe Bain. She denied no. And then not on you and then because of brother. Although I stayed with conversation. I guessed. All this was natural. And it created safety.

The effect was amazing. She opened up like a flower. Making intensive repairs. Initiating conversation after another. Should I make a chai. Telling me she wants kindle. Giving me Gita. Warming in plate. Offering me her Gita. My voice was good. We are modern.

All it took was naraj lag rahe ho. To diffuse an ongoing tension.

So yesterday, a guy came to meet Lin. She also told me about many other people that are chasing her. And then today she went to meet that guy. She was dressed up. And then she spent around 5hrs. A part of me seems to not like it. The childish one.

I came back home and there is a bit of the tension. The subject is touchy. And that makes it challnaging to discuss. If not discussed it creates the knot. The conversation first become slight uncomfortable and then you know.

I want her to go out meet more people. I want to do the same. But such is the nature of attachment.

She should meet more people. Especially if someone wants to marry her. This is but obvious. I need to observe any discomfort in me. And then it needs be discussed unless she really don’t want to.

Bring the topic and talk about it. release it. Know your position. Take advantage of opportunity.

The need has to match with the skill or product. There are certain skills I already cultivated, so there are certain needs I can match without effort. There are certain skills I am cultivating and certain skills I will cultivate.

The another aspect of skill is that resources can actually purchase skills. Without resources you have to do it yourself.

The proper system and training can actually delegate the skill that you are doing your self.

The first step has to be the identification of need and then comes the skills. You can look into the people who are satisfying different needs what kind of skill they have.

In case you are overwhelmingly lacking the skill. You can actually build the skill by working under someone.

The only way to build the skill is to hustle with understanding. The community around you can help in this serveraly.

There has to be the perfect match of skill and...

Every transaction is beautifully interdependent unit of need, skill and communication.

The first circle I can work with myself. Seeing the history of what I paid for. What I didn’t paid for etc. I can see what is my willingness to pay for different things. How other people are communicating the value and charging me, and how well and frictionless this transaction is happening. Then I can see the value I am providing to others What kind of need I matched. And how short or beyond I went.

The second circle you can select your brother and see what kind of need he has and being met and his willingness to pay by seeing his history of purchase.

Then you can select 5 close people but different streams and values, and their need and willingness to pay. I think their might be some finding by understanding this data.

This is the essence. Every single thing that is being sold is meeting some kind of need of someone. The need can be originated in lower mind or intellectual.

There are some fundamental needs security, sex| partner, different wants that originates from mind as a search for happiness, traveling. There are needs of five senses and ego. There is a need of philanthropy. There is a need to be free from things that are binding us. Being shy. There are centain fascinations.

There is a solid ignorance behind most of the needs. Every need is rooted in some desire.

Some need people will agree upon, some they won’t. Those are indirect need, like searching partner in community. Some are the kind of need based on gratification of senses. Some are hope. Some need are intellectual some are emotional.

Not everyone can afford a chai worth ruppee 100rs. indirectly pay for 2-3 hour of sitting. Some...