The primary element of work is to bring value in someone’s life, and charging for that.

You can do it either by bringing value in context of co-orprate. This restrict the freedom of expression but make the prorcess more predictable and easy. There is cap on limit.

Or you can understand some problem clearly and see what people consider as a problem and willing to pay and build and sale a product for that. In this you have maximum freedom to express and craft but at the same time maximum responsibility. Possibilities are limitless here.

You can also use platform build by someone else to connect your passion and others need and they fascitilate the finance and all. It is somewhat partnership. [udemy]

The first corner stone has to be someone’s need. And it has to be true need and then everything else comes.

The most consiquencal things is finance. When I start again this is the amount I have to work with. Total amount I will have left is 10lakh once I restart the process.

Having less money induce an energy and urgency of its own kind.

Having to worry about money start to restrict options. At the moment I would like to do a yoga TTC. Or might consider living outside of India. Or clothes. But I wouldn’t consider giving the stress it will put on the finance.

If I start a business of some kind that would need some seed money.

when I stay at Dharamshala ±25k and when Bangalore ±50k is usual monthly expense.

If I start to run out of money I will have to compromise my freedom. Money has a directal connection with freedom.

Than there is an aspect of donation and saving and family.

The cost of freedom is 50K/month. If I could earn this much before the end of the year I can be free.

Beyond...

• releasing the 2 circles of desires.

Readings -

• Chanakya
• 7 principles
• Compassion of lojong

understand other people, listen what they are talking about their desire behind it.

Contemplate and how to integrate the tips.

Relase the samsakara of impressing and sensuality by the aid of vipassana and meditation of duality and seeing full circle.

See what other people are doing, what are their desires, what they want or if unbalanced observe your own desires and Samskara.

Learn more about the art of diplomacy, social ettiquete, negotiations. Leadership.

Learn more about compassion and danger of self centeredness. And build practice around it.

Learn more about long term relationship, explore romantic relationships. Have it’s place, Have a routine and then respect the nature.

If you find people with good heart traveling in the same direction build friendships.

If anyone in our family, epecially mom is willing to listen guide them if you can.

Keep the appearance clean and dignified.

Get to the point where you are completely self satisfied in solitude, this is the place where you look for happiness, peace and bliss.

Relase the thought of finding happiness in social realm, acceptance, impressing, respect, dominating, sensual pleasure, relapse the desire to impress secondary characters.

Express yourself and interact with people without any filters, observe people trying to find happiness in respect, impressing, sharing, sensual pleasure, dominating, playing, escaping.

Release the self centeredness and fill your mind with the thoughts of compassion, build practices and strengthen it by learning more about compassion and danger of self centeredness.

Be good in social ettiquette, diplomacy and negotiation. Learn more about it, master it.

When you find someone with the qualities of true appreciation, no self importance, life, maturity, playfulness and commalitym...

Be stabilize in solitude, observe and release and be free from the ignorance of all kind of social happiness and suffering, on the level of mind and the secondary characters, reach a point where thoughts of impressing, sensual desires, pleases, unplease, praise, acceptance, winning, has been dissolved, and you no longer search any happiness and suffering there. This can be done with vipassana and spiritual pursuits. And gradually being done. And then fully express yourself. With the intensity of truth, play.

See acceptance | rejection, domination, pretending, sympathy, synergy, appreciation, self expression, childishness, see these element. See people talking about their inner world, and than building alley, emery, master them, struggle. There are certain actions which brings joy, certain actions makes you empty.

Master the art of social ettiquete. Diplomacy, negotiation especially in...

Mom not being able to take care of herself. She is working hard when her body is not really allowing her to do so. Hurting in the process.

She is making too much food and I could see her back is hurting but she won’t stop. Than she She is very habitual of working this way, making 10kg of laddu.

If I force her she might listen, and then how would she take care of herself If something happens to my father.

She is the least mature in our family. Always talking shouldn’t things be this way.

Her Body will feel more relief if somehow we can relax her, but than this is the truth of life, people get old, body gets painful, and you can’t change other people.

If she is willing and you can relieve put yourself in her service. If she is not willing you can’t do anything. If she is willing and you don’t know what to do accept it. The force of habits are very strong.

From bigger prespective...

The need of importance - everybody has this need of being important, same place from where the need of impressing others arises. This is why everyone including me is trying correct other people, gain their acceptance, prove them wrong, act according to our beliefs in a way that will impress other person. This is why it is stupid to correct other person as it will hurt their sense of importance. On the other hand genuinely praise and complement and accept other increases their senes of importance. Even intently listening someone. Respecting their beliefs or whatever they are saying isn’t after all bad idea.

the level of conversation - if the conversation is specific keep it specific, if it is general keep it general. Either you are are talking about weather marriage is a good idea or not, or you are talking about how to find your partner. People has tendency to mix them when they are...

It is rooted in the thoughts and deeper passions.

There is sex and then there is all kind of fantasies, these fantasies when match in reality do not produce joy but there is the happiness of matching image. These fantasies are one sided and also force other people to do what they probably don’t like to do. Entertaining in mind is only recoating them. They can be let go based on understanding or experience. On by mere observation. The problem is my sexual energy channel through these fantasies which is not healthy. And It is amazing that I don’t get shy saying anything but hesitate and want to look like I didn’t mean that or hide the fact of my desire, ofcourse it unbalance my mind.

Another angle is I don’t want to do it often and I don’t want to waste time about fantasizing it. I matertate once a week and I find it good balance, of course I wanna kiss and hug and other aspects of love...

Lin - she already has ideas of romantic relationship. What she wanted was ease, she wanted to be in love and relationship but it has to be natural. She didn’t wanted to make choices and decisions. And as I lead without being too intrusive and let her come at her pace. A1000yoga fascilitated this very well it was a naturally lead to come closer, she enticipated and then the breakfast was just building more and more comfort. I think she was also impressed the way I lived me my life, how to live a good life, my spritual angle. Maybe she wanted to do but didn’t have courage.

She wanted to be in realtionship but natural and real, the process was at ease, and gradual, she also liked what I was doing and fall in love in the end,

Ritika, she also desperately wanted to be in a relationship, few conversation and ease, without me really qualifying but kinda funny and smart, she liked my...