nitesh sharma

Professional Programmer, Introverted traveler, and Admirer of classics.

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Doubts and Distraction.

But it is not like him ( Elon | Luice | AIB | Steve ) - the fear of choice, choosing one thing means leaving other things out. It is not as much I want to do what elon or steve or anyone else is doing, it is this vague, ambigious, assurance that I haven’t cross that option yet, that sense of safety, the path to mediocrity.

Lets imagin for a second that I want to do what Steve is doing creating iphone and awesome device how would I do it ? So I would master the art of slicion chip manufacture that might take an year or two, than software design on chip level, product design, managing endless people. Or what about elon am I willing to spend years to learn the depth of science ( like a learnt spirituality ) and than create the endless iteration on creating the toy. Is this sound like a good way to utilise the limited time of yours.

The truth is I don’t have interest to pursue these...

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Criteria for product-maker-fit.

The element of intuition - If we are in good mental and physical health and our actions are aligned with essential moral principles. Something indescribable start to express itself through us. We can call it intuitions, we know what we are doing is right and doesn’t necessarily needs to logically explaine it to ourself. Following this intuition is what people like mahatma gandhi did and practice of yoga and purification is all about creating ourself so we can access this intuitions clearly. When intuition is guiding you, you can just relax in its lead.

Sparks - Subjects and ideas that fasicnates us, hold our interest and make us curious. Maybe out of need to solve a problem, maybe out of need of mastery. It is like an interesting ride. Pychology of mind, behaviour and relationships is so fascinating to me, its been over year and dozens of book I just can’t get enough of it. Working in...

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Week #36.

Contribution -

  • Clear manifesto
  • Meditation and medium post on why?
  • The obtacle of ego.
  • Talk| website| interview [ brainstrom and how to begin ]
  • Research one person everyday.

Spirituality -

  • The crystal goals of 2017.
  • The happiness of moment.
  • The charm of self.
  • Toa the ching.
  • Unlimited Power.

Social

  • Building healthy relationship.

Health

  • Yoga class.

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Week #35 retroaspective.

Mostly in the process on movement from Rishikesh to Delhi to Bangalore.

Spirituality -

  • Happiness and sadness of moments. [ in process ]
  • Movement to bangalore and yoga class.
  • Four agreements.

Soical -

  • Assertiveness workbook. [ draw ]

Contributions -

  • Work.
  • The criteria for good work
  • The obstacle of big
  • Media and education venture and how it fits the criteria
  • The options to start talk| interview| website.
  • The services other people provide..
  • the ways to get paid.
    • Total recall.
    • Andrew carinege.
    • Some inside quest and creative live interview.

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Week #35

Spirituality -

  • The charm of self.
  • Happiness and sadness of moments.
  • The goals of 2018.
  • Movement to bangalore and yoga class.
  • Tao the ching.

Soical -

  • How to build right relationships.
  • P.R.E.
  • Uncage your conversations.
  • Assertiveness workbook. [deep dive]

Contributions -

  • 2 days of give to glow.
  • Total recall.
  • Andrew carinege.

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Week #34 retroaspective.

Spiritual -

  • Self Image and self judgemental voice.

Connection -

  • deep dive sexual polarity.
  • deep dive rapport
    • 36 question.
    • 3 magic question.
    • hony.
  • assertiveness workbook [ read and draw ].

Contribution -

  • Love the job you are with.
  • Think ripple, not wave.
  • practice give to glow.

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Sexual polarity.

The mesculiene essenece - Decisive, Prespective, Purpose, Clarity, direction, mission, challange, decision, freedom, penetration. Knowing where one is going, sure of it and moving in that direction, confident, clearing the block. ready to learn from mistakes and grow, leaning on fear, ready to lead. Mesculiene must know the purpose of his life.

Presence, Integrity. Honour, leaning on edge, Search for freedom, Aliveness, dedication, depth, inspirational energy, Constantly leaning on edge. Raw, awake, unknowing, penetrate through chaoas and closure,

Lost drifting, adapting according the situation, loosing the depth and presence,

The feminine essence - softness, joy, dance, sing, expression, decoration, emotions, opening up, submission. They can learn to let go, relax and trust. Looking for love. Looking for the rock of certainty. They are very expressive, very alive but uncentered...

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Week #34

Spiritual -

  • Self Image.

Connection -

  • deep dive sexual polarity.
  • deep dive rapport
    • 36 question.
    • 3 magic question.
    • hony.
  • assertiveness workbook [ read and draw ].

Contribution -

  • Love the job you are with.
  • Think ripple, not wave.
  • Call one person everyday to deep dive in their problem. And further brainstorming on how you can provide value.

Health -

  • Ayurveda.

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Week #33 retroaspective

*Connectiuin *

Connection -

  • Dating Bristol.
  • The Love bomb.
  • Types of love and context.
  • Way of a superior man [ drew ]

Contribution -

  • Understanding needs and wants of other people and using their phrases in marketing.
  • Call with avinash.
  • Give to glow.
  • Practice loving no.

Spirituality -

  • How we build our self images [ scattered diving ].

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Learnings from dating #05

It was amazing, completely in your skin, I lead confidentially and she followed. She was interested in me and participating entusicatically. All the places are really good. Arthur 36 question build incredible comfort. Where initially she was really afraid of what will i think. I was very playful and started to expand my edge around physical touch and sexual jokes. I start to became around easing the resistance with jokes and innocence. It was perfect. I also clearly told her I kind of like her, touched her, played with her. The common spark made it so much easier.

Of course my part of job is to lead her advances without compromising my pririoties. And keep learning otherwise. My primary focus was to learn and there is a lot of learning happened on this one.

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