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What I am doing at the moment is very uncertain. I don’t have a clear idea, and as I stay with it, the answer will start to emerge. I need to figure out the work part. Now this has nothing to do with social aspect. Health and spirituality. The parameter here is security, comfort, professional growth and purpose at best.
So my mind is screaming that I am such failure and I should sex, lets watch a video, it is a acomapnied with a funny sensation in chest.
Ideal situation would have been I am thinking and my mind is completely absorbed in finding the solution.
Any voice in head is positive, exciting and enthusiastic. Or I am using that opportunity to retrain my mind.
Let’s step back and see the structure at the moment. It is. The voice, and sensation in heart. It is puking the suggestions. And the more I follow the more fearful and active it will become.
The second I am loosing the...
The current attitude of mind is such that it is not letting me work at all. It is freaking out. Telling I should look for the least kind of job. That too I might not get. I wasted so much time, my life is blah blah….there is very interesting sensation in chest. And then it is like god, so negative. And it is making the work so hard. It won’t shut up. And it is saying things all stupid. When I see someone it is competing and all that stupidity. Shidhin seems like a smart guy. On every level I know this is stupid.
That voice might as well be saying wow this is the time, this is the opportunity. Infect it is so important that this attitude of mind must be trained first.
The problem is in the moment and challenge is in the mind. All these suggestions are coming from the belief. Man is there a way to shut it down. Or is it going to be like this forever.
Let’s think in the long term. Maybe 10 years. You are amazingly strong foot now. Things are getting sorted out, there are very few things that really left in the mind.
In terms of work, you need to grow as a leader. Not in theory but practice. Understand it, learn it deeply and practice it.
If you wanna make real impact you need to learn bussiness. You have to grow in terms of bussiness. Every single aspect.
Than you need to master one domain. And for me that domain is education. It is a no brainier.
Use this time and opportunity to work your way up. First of all you need to master yourself. Period. You have to be the strongest mind in the world. And you can not pretend to be one. You have to practice. You have to live the values.
It would not be a bad idea if I work in some education startup for next one year. Preferably in west. Build the contact. Grow myself as a leader. And than...
The value is brought by bringing the change. All the needs are being met by some products. Sometime peoplea are not satisfied. You offer a better product. And brining that change has its cost. The people who are loosing their position are going to be hurt.
The change itself has the cost and takes time, effort and the result is comfort. And the whole cycle repeats. There might be few things where the need itself is not being met. They are open opportunity.
There will be a fierce comptetion for the job as well as for the leader. On all stages. People will pretend to provide the value, really provide value. The winner would be the strongest person.
Nature do not tolerate less then best. You have to be best in all the areas. Even if you make a small change you will be get paid.
How can I find orphanage where I can talk and give donation. Or people who are teaching in slum.
I can talk to people at ashayien. Search on the google. And visit some places. People at ashayien have been in this business for long. They can direct me how to approach the orphanages.
I already know few. I can go to them talk to someone who runs the place. And see If I can donate money or books.
The child fund association. The jail kind of place. Ashadeep. The disabled + orphanage. At the very least I can go to child fund association and ask if I can donate a small amount or books. They are doing good job. Or I can go to that disabled place or jail and ask the same thing.
donation : make a 1000rs donation to a worthy cause. Find a charitable place and do it.
encouraging others and sharing resource : anyone you come to contact you listen carefully, acknowledge, appreciate and encourage. See if you can share any resource to help them. Learn and do it better next time
take a collage session - take one career session in collage.
start a meetup in communication - start a meetup to help communicate better.
lojong : watch videos on compassion training and practice it.
donation - the very least I can do is start donating. If you find someone is doing a good job you can actually just donate some money. This could atleast be the first step.
encourage others - you can encourage others and share resources and help others. Listen from there perspective and see if you can offer anything that can ease up their pain.
Lojong | books - start reading books and watch videos on lojong practice.
career session in collage - you can actually take the real session in collage that can help someone to give the path.
communication meetup - you can run a meetup for better relationship and communications.
All of this must be done with the understanding of helping other people. I think I can do the donation right away and the collage session in next one week. And communication meetup in this month.
What is the reponsiblity of the man in the relationship. The same quality I am expecting from my partner.
Building the common dream together and helping other to grow in their dream. Filling the empty parts.
There are going to be some sacrifice, am I willing to make them!!. There are going to be some cap on the freedom am I willing to accept that. She doesn’t exist to serve me. Am I willing to accept it and let her live her life. She might die. Is it ok.
When It comes between Lin and me, I am more self centred and less compromising. She is happy to be influenced and be considerate. Am I willing to work and let go that part of me.